There are some things in life which creates lot of burden on us. These are expectations of others from us. Everybody has some kind of expectation from us. Our family has some expectations from and our boss has some other. Our neighbor has some and our society has some other. Expectation is not a bad word. Everybody has some expectation from other. This world is going on in this way. Things are good up to the time, they are in some limit.

How ever due to busy schedules of life, it is becoming difficult to meet other expectation. Expectations are so large from us, that it is not possible for us to fulfill them. We can meet some of them and rest we have leave as such. Thus those whom expectations we fulfill will remain happy with us and the others whom expectations we are not able to meet will remain angry with us. Situations are becoming worse with the increase of expectations of others from us day by day.

Now we are living in a society where expectations from others are very large. Everybody wants other to fulfill dreams for them. They do not want do themselves anything to fulfill it. There are also many people who are themselves not in this state to do anything, but they expect from others. Many times situations come in our life where we are over burdened by the expectations of others. We usually have so many expectations to fulfill that we have to choose some.

Like we have to choose between the expectation of family from us to come back home early and spend time with them or the expectation of boss to work till late hours. If we choose the first option then we will make our boss angry and if we choose the second one then we will make angry our family. Both the options we are loosing some things. This is the example of only two options, there are many cases where multiple options are present and we have to choose the one.

Only problem with this expectation is that they unnecessary make us tense. Multiple chooses often create lot of difficult situations in front of us. We increase our fears by imagining the outcome of not meeting some ones expectations. Other problem with these expectations is that they take our life from us. We are so much over burdened by the expectations of others that we forget living our own life. In childhood we are burdened by the expectation of teachers, parents and friends. In adulthood we are burdened by the expectation of professors, competition, girlfriend and parents again. In thirty-forties we burdened by the expectations of our children, wife and boss. Above fifties we are burdened the expectations of society, friends.

We live our most of life in fulfilling the expectations of other and even some time got depressed for not fulfilling others expectations. Expectation is not a bad world, but it is required to be in some limit. We should look at our life before fulfilling others expectations. We also require to give some time to our self and not only meeting others expectations. Also we should limit our own expectations from others.